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![One major reason so many JFS cases fall through the cracks is not because they aren’t abuse, but because the abuse isn’t as obvious to the naked eye as in other cases. The abuse is often “filtered,” to keep the average, distant human off the abuser’s trail. JFS receives more cases than they have manpower and time to investigate. So they LITERALLY have something like a matrix to decide what gets their attention. If your case doesn’t fall within the matrix of priorities (meaning your child doesn’t show physical marks and bruises or egregious signs of neglect), then your case is closed. So imagine trying to prove HIDDEN (psychological, emotional, verbal, sexual, and sometimes physical abuse [it’s entirely possible to choke or punch a child without leaving a mark. I lived it.]), so that you can protect your child. Thinking about going to court? How would you prove to a judge what you couldn’t even prove to JFS? And doesn’t the court look to JFS for their proof anyway? Metaphorically, the system acknowledges that you have cancer, but they have to prioritize the people, whose cancer appears to be worse than yours.
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So what do we do with all the children, whose parents are functioning drug or alcohol addicts, habitual abandoners, sexual abusers or harboring sexual abusers, and cluster B personality-disordered abusers? None of these behaviors can be seen on the surface. They are pastors, salespeople, marketing executives, accountants, etc., who’ve learned how to use really convincing “filters.” Who protects these children and breaks the cycle, when the system says that the parents aren’t abusive or neglectful enough to the naked eye to justify support and protection?
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#qotd #truth #injustice #trauma #childhoodtrauma #domesticviolence #hiddenabuse #psychologicalabuse #narcissisticabuse #addiction #codependency #toxic #parents #WOLVES #counterparenting #awareness #thoughts
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#Freedom #Writer #AndAnothaThing](https://instagram.ffcm1-2.fna.fbcdn.net/vp/bde200b5bbf5c1a7179fc755485cfdeb/5C3EDAFB/t51.2885-15/e35/42422003_248724129321285_1906485981831709764_n.jpg "One major reason so many JFS cases fall through the cracks is not because they aren’t abuse, but because the abuse isn’t as obvious to the naked eye as in other cases. The abuse is often “filtered,” to keep the average, distant human off the abuser’s trail. JFS receives more cases than they have manpower and time to investigate. So they LITERALLY have something like a matrix to decide what gets their attention. If your case doesn’t fall within the matrix of priorities (meaning your child doesn’t show physical marks and bruises or egregious signs of neglect), then your case is closed. So imagine trying to prove HIDDEN (psychological, emotional, verbal, sexual, and sometimes physical abuse [it’s entirely possible to choke or punch a child without leaving a mark. I lived it.]), so that you can protect your child. Thinking about going to court? How would you prove to a judge what you couldn’t even prove to JFS? And doesn’t the court look to JFS for their proof anyway? Metaphorically, the system acknowledges that you have cancer, but they have to prioritize the people, whose cancer appears to be worse than yours.
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So what do we do with all the children, whose parents are functioning drug or alcohol addicts, habitual abandoners, sexual abusers or harboring sexual abusers, and cluster B personality-disordered abusers? None of these behaviors can be seen on the surface. They are pastors, salespeople, marketing executives, accountants, etc., who’ve learned how to use really convincing “filters.” Who protects these children and breaks the cycle, when the system says that the parents aren’t abusive or neglectful enough to the naked eye to justify support and protection?
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#qotd #truth #injustice #trauma #childhoodtrauma #domesticviolence #hiddenabuse #psychologicalabuse #narcissisticabuse #addiction #codependency #toxic #parents #WOLVES #counterparenting #awareness #thoughts
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#Freedom #Writer #AndAnothaThing")
