We know you’re all dying to ask, sooo here goes nothing! We are about to list our top 5 co-parenting blow outs... the fights that felt like they might never end, the arguments that we didn’t think we could come back from, the disagreements that really tested us... YUP, we have them too!!
1. Christmas, 2017;
2. Trav & Bec moving to a different town;
3. Christmas, 2018; aand
4. STAY TUNED!!
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That’s it, that’s all (for now!) When it really comes down to it, we can only think of 3 arguments that have had us reaaally pulling out our hair. Don’t get it twisted — the four of us will NEVER agree on everything. We are all different people with different values. We each hold different things to a higher standard and we are HUMAN. It’s easy to get caught up in the moment and overreact. But we’ve very quickly learned that it’s almost always more constructive to table the conversation, and come back to it when the emotions have dissipated. We try our very best to step back and ask ourselves, “is this really that big of a deal?? is it going to affect our lives??” and our favourite “is this really worth risking our relationship for??” That question is like a gut check for us, if it’s not worth the risk is it really something we need to be arguing about? We knew we didn’t want to live in constant conflict with one another so each and everyday we pick our battles and it’s the simplest advice we can pass on to others. It’s not always easy but in our eyes it’s sooo important!!
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